My mother in law is the type of person who has everything. She is actually at a stage in her life where she is trying to get rid of stuff. She sent a box to us recently that held my husband's childhood memorabilia. My Father in law died in November and she is preparing herself to go through his stuff. They were married over fifty years. So she is trying to clear out half a century's worth of stuff, so I don't want to give her more stuff, and there is nothing she needs. Lately I have been giving her either food gifts (usually flavored coffees, she is a much better cook than I am) or doing donations to charity in her honor, which she says she loves, but the kids miss seeing her open gifts. So any ideas?