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Old 02-25-2009, 2:44 PM
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How do you motivate a kid who is gifted, but lazy? This kid is probably smarter than me, but he doesn't want to do the work. Even worse, sometimes he does it and doesn't bother to turn it in. He only wants to do the bare minimum. How do I get him motivated to do his best?
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Old 02-25-2009, 3:13 PM
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THIS WAS ME!!!

I'm a HUGE procrastinator, because I KNOW I can get it done fast if I have too - plus that makes it more challenging (i.e. more fun!) but it drove my parents CRAZY! My grades didn't reflect what I could do/did do, because like your son, I wouldn't turn stuff in. I aced tests without studying because I HAD to take them in class, couldn't opt out of that. This was a BIG problem in about middle school - high school was a little better because I was in a program that catered to kids like me. We had more projects and stuff that we'd be interested in.

Then college? Was AWESOME. I FINALLY liked school because I could take the classes I wasnted (for the most part) and I found them fun and interesting and there was WAY less "busy work."

For me, it was understanding that I HAD to work hard in HS to get to do the fun stuff in college. That did help in motivating me, but it really is challenging....
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Old 02-25-2009, 6:06 PM
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That was me, too! I was more motivated when I was interested in the subject matter or when I really liked the teacher. I hated busy work, especially in subjects I HAD to take.
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