She is nine. For right now what is working is if she is not done she doesn't get to do things. Yesterday I told her if she was done by a certain time I would buy her subway for lunch. I can't afford to do that all the time, but she had just spent several days with her aunt and before that the boys were home on spring break, so I wanted to get her back in the groove. Today she missed sign language class (and seeing her friends new puppy) cause she didn't finish. She is still stallling and if she is not done, she will miss dance class, her favorite thing in the world.